Why late is not better

My husband believes firmly , "Better late than never." Which means we have probably been early or on time anywhere 6-7 times in almost 9 years old marriage.

Just don't bring up that he's ADD. Because if he's pissed off at me he will deny it.

I have told him other truths and end up yelling, "You can't handle the truth!"

Now, after midnight, we are trying to clear cabinets and countertops so a waterline can go from the fridge to the sink. Because, he wanted water and ice in the door and I didn't. I keep telling him that they're more trouble than they're worth. Of course, I am ignored. It doesn't ever matter how many times I am right, which is a very high % of the time, he wants what he wants.

He doesn't pay attention to others either.

Now, I have to take breaks because I have arthritis in my right hip and sciatica on the left. I just feel like we will run out of time and it will be on me tomorrow to finish up.